There has been a lot said and written on the subject of time
management mostly from non-Muslim Western sources. Unfortunately most material
available only addresses the problem of wasting time in fragments. There has
not been a holistic treatment of this subject from an Islamic perspective. We Muslims repeatedly find ourselves
at a loss at organizing our affairs and achieving our multi-faceted goals due
to mismanagement of time. In addressing this subject, I will attempt to share a
holistic methodology which over the years I have found effective. It should be
helpful for most practicing Muslims, insha
Allah.
First of all, one should realize the importance of life and
time which are gifts from Allah (SWT). Life is a one-time opportunity whose
proper use will ultimately decide one’s destiny in this world and the next.
Since Allah (SWT) is the Creator and Regulator of all affairs, it is only
appropriate that we use the blessing of time in accordance with His wishes
alone. Thus we must first make a clear intention to dedicate one’s life and all
our actions based on an overall mission to serve Allah (SWT) and His deen and thus qualify for Paradise. This
mission should not just be given lip service. It should be sincerely
implemented in all aspects of our lives.
Once this realization and intention is established, one
automatically begins to filter all one’s activities to remove those that hinder
its achievement. One becomes driven by clear goals and tends to carry out
routine activities in the most efficient manner. One feels is no craving for addictions
like TV viewing, computer games, movies, shopping sprees, collecting stuff,
etc. Weekly grocery shopping can be achieved in 30 minutes flat with proper
planning and timing. Children can be taken to parks and beaches on an early
weekend morning when the people sleep so that there is plenty of parking, no
crowds, no traffic and no indecency.
By resolving to implement a Sunnah lifestyle, one organizes one’s daily activities to become
focused in achieving the supreme mission. The Sunnah teaches us to live simply and efficiently, focusing on those
aspects which are really important for us and doing away with time wasters. Not
only that, it is the pattern of divinely inspired, human lifestyle that helps
achieve the supreme mission in the most optimum way. The Sunnah is a most natural lifestyle, in which one consciously aligns
oneself to the natural rhythms and forces of Creation. One synergizes with the
natural world and achieving goals becomes a natural outcome. This is what is meant by
having tawfeeq (divine alignment of
opportunity and preparedness) in realizing one’s ambitions. The levels of
stress, anxiety and effort are the least compared to any other possible means.
This makes it possible to achieve multiple synergistic goals simultaneously.
For a practicing Muslim, the five salwaat are the milestones in one’s daily routine which he uses to
organize his activities around in well-defined chunks. It is found that doing work
in well-defined stages is more beneficial than during prolonged uninterrupted
sessions. Prayer must be established at its earliest time and with the first
congregation at the masjid, whenever possible. The prayers fulfill the
essential purpose of connection to Allah (SWT), reinforcing the mission,
self-reflection and resolving/planning to work on pending tasks through divine
inspiration which comes after supplications. The masjid and the congregation
are means to help one meet one’s goals and mission. By frequently visiting the
masjid, one becomes involved with others who share one’s mission, thus
synergizing with them. One should involve oneself and one’s family in the local
masjid activities. Time should be invested in socializing with people of
positive outlook who support and share one’s mission.
The choice of residence should be in that neighborhood of
the city which is closest to a masjid, work, relatives, shops and other places
where you do your chores. By avoiding frequent out-of-town travel, one gets
more time to focus on one’s goals. Traveling and traffic jams not only waste
time and resources but they also make one tired, hindering one to work on goals.
One should try to find and use local resources as much as possible, rather than
going to distant places to reach them. The internet makes it possible to engage
in dawah, order things and study
subjects online.
Proper planning is essential for success. Thus waking 30
minutes regularly before fajr for tahajjud makes one better organized as
you ask Allah (SWT) for help in the day’s activities. Waking early and planning
the day is much better than spending the late night tossing and turning in the
bed, anxious for what tomorrow will bring. The latter is very
counter-productive. Contrary to general assumption, waking for tahajjud makes one more alert throughout
the day. One regularly falls easily to sleep right after ishaa as the Prophet (SWAS) recommended.
It is important to try and always plan your work, projects
and activities. At work, avoid sitting after office hours. Do not make
unreasonable commitments on project deadlines. Always give yourself a
reasonable time margin. Let your colleagues know you have many commitments
other than work. At the same time make sure you are known for working honestly,
efficiently and produce good results. Do not sacrifice the essential balance in
life to ever get ahead at work, no matter how many people are doing this around
you. Whatever achievements you make will not be lasting and will return to
haunt you in later stages of your life.
The choice of a life partner influences how organized you
end up being in life. Marry someone for their deen, so that the whole family is organized around the supreme
mission. Their support is essential for your success. Empower people under you
by delegating and learning to trust them. Write a family mission statement and
constitution with your spouse when you get married and try to live up to it.
Try to pass on good time management habits to your children.
Lastly, it is vital for all family members to take the time
to raise their emaan frequently. It
will give everyone the energy to achieve their other goals. Worshipping, reading,
learning, researching, teaching, writing, doing good works, dawah, avoiding sins, contemplating and
spending time with the Quran are some activities that are useful. Make these
activities the means for you and your family’s genuine contentment rather than
wasting time in some other forms of senseless entertainment. Always look out
for ways to make you and your family more efficient.
We learn from the Seerah,
how all aspects of the Prophet’s (SWAS) life were aligned to his mission. There
was wisdom and lessons in every mundane thing he did in his life. In order to
use time wisely, we must make our intentions and mission the same. What better
way to do this than to adopt the Sunnah
in our lives? Worship as in the salawaatul
khamisa, qiyaam and reciting Quran, planning, socializing, work, choice of
residence and spouse, learning, entertainment, dawah, etc. can all be a means to our ultimate success if we have
the right intentions and use them properly towards the right end. By doing so we
would use our time efficiently.
I ask Allah (SWT) to give me and all the Muslims more
blessings in use of our time. Ameen
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