Sunday, June 28, 2020

How to Pursue Dreams

The miracle of the Prophet (SWAS) was that there were no miracles. He became the most successful man ever by rational strategy to achieve his goals. The Sunnah is intelligent strategy so if we want to become successful, we should deliberately plan to achieve our dreams.

If we adopt the right methodology to pursue our dreams, we will be pulled to our goals rather having to push ourselves towards them. Even when we are tired we would be motivated to keep working towards them. What if we are automatically pulled towards every good thing we decide to achieve?

When we adopt this methodology everyone around us gets influenced including family, colleagues and community. When we work on one area of our life (e.g. career) all other areas of the life get affected, e.g. family, health, religion, relationships, etc. These are the different hats we wear.

We start off by trying to pursue our dreams in one or two areas of life. This pursuit is a journey. It needs to be strategically planned and monitored stage by stage. The Prophet (SWAS) excelled in all areas of life.

The heart of this methodology is the identity. When we decide to pursue a dream, wearing a specific hat, we take on an identity that is characteristic for that hat, e.g. someone wanting to perfect tajweed might take the identity of Abdul Basit Abdus Samad. When we take an identity, it psychologically conditions us to successfully achieve that dream.

The identity is enhanced by habits. When we adopt the habits, they enable us to believe in the identity which leads to our dreams thus success boils down to habits. Habits should be defined to be at a specific location and specific time. They should be of two minutes or less in duration.

Who we become during the journey - the identity - may be more important than the dream. The journey transforms us. If we are only focused on the dream we will be miserable after we get there. We might feel a sense of euphoria on reaching the goal, but nothing more. We must learn to enjoy the journey otherwise the journey will seem to us as an obstacle or something we hate which will discourage us to fulfill our dreams. We must love the journey in order to accomplish our dreams.

To live a good life throughout the journey, we should have faith and do good deeds. We can be happy, emphatic, loving, satisfied, etc. at any moment in the journey, not necessarily after we get to the destination.

We need to try to quantify the progress of the journey and try to measure it to see how we are doing at different stages.

There is some vital behavior which leads to the success of this methodology and needs to be determined scientifically through hypothesis testing. If we get the vital behavior right on a daily basis everything in the methodology can work out. It can be as simple as going to bed at the same time every night.

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